How Serious Is Malia Obama’s Relationship With Rory Farquharson?

Malia Obama has made headlines for some pretty wild partying and alleged drug use. But she made headlines in 2017 for another reason entirely: her unexpected relationship with British millionaire Rory Farquharson.

Since starting the relationship, both of them have done a good (though not perfect) job of avoiding tabloids and negative headlines. They generally stay out of sight, but this has many fans wondering: how is their relationship? Are they going strong or on the rocks?

We’ve got the full scoop on these two lovebirds. And that means we can answer the big question: how serious is Malia Obama’s relationship with Rory Farquharson?

How it started

Every good love story has its “meet cute” moment. And as near as anyone can tell, Obama and Farquharson met at a Harvard football game in 2017.

They certainly hit it off: the two of them were making headlines by making out in public, and there was intense online speculation about who Malia’s mystery man could be. And public interest only grew when everyone discovered that the “mystery man” was actually a savvy British millionaire.

At the time, some people thought this would be a one-time makeout session. But it quickly blossomed into something more.

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Making things official

When you’re the oldest daughter of former President Obama, it’s natural to take things a bit slower. But once Malia hit her second semester at Harvard, she decided to go public about her relationship with Rory.

This didn’t come in the form of an official statement. Instead, the two simply made public appearances as a couple, starting when they walked the streets of New York together. This gave way to some great candid photos and led to more speculation about their future together.

And just like Malia herself, the world was about to learn quite a bit about Rory Farquharson.

Local boy makes good

Around most parts, “Rory Farquharson” isn’t exactly a household name. But back in England, he is a rather famous and important figure.

He went to the same prestigious Rugby School attended by former UK PM Neville Chamberlain. At the school, he became Head Boy and joined the Blue Bunsen Society due to his skills in chemistry. Outside the classroom, he dazzled at sports like golf and rugby.

Long story short? When The Telegraph interviewed insiders about Rory’s life, they concluded he was “very popular” (especially among female classmates) and considered “quite a catch.”

Good job, Malia! 

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Money and Power

To understand where Rory comes from, it’s important to understand his family.

His father is a chief executive of Insight Investment Management Limited and his mother works as a qualified accountant. We don’t know their exact net worth, but we know that mom and dad own multiple multimillion dollars homes.

In other words, Rory is very well-off. His own net worth is estimated at $1–2 million as of June 2021.

And he has special royal connections as well. His second cousin Andrew served as the Queen’s Master of Household and even crashed in Buckingham Palace. The Queen made him a member of the Royal Victorian Order before he went to work for Prince Charles.

On top of that family connection, Rory also met Prince Harry when the two were both featured in a video for the Rugby World Cup opening in 2015. But while Rory has some very famous connections, it didn’t take too long for him and Malia to “disconnect” in an unexpected way!

Social media silence

For average people, a sign that a relationship is serious is when things get “Facebook official” via social media announcements. But for the rich and famous, going silent on social media is a bigger deal.

Malia already kept a low social media profile thanks to her parents’ advice when she lived in the White House. But Rory got a crash course in social media stealth after they began dating, and he deleted all of his social media accounts once their relationship went public.

We didn’t learn much from those deleted accounts except that Rory really dislikes Donald Trump. When you’re dating Barack Obama’s daughter, though, that’s not exactly an unexpected opinion!

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Approved by each other’s parents

Another sign of a serious relationship is the two meeting each other’s parents. While that can be stressful, it turns out that each family approves of this pairing.

As we said before, Malia had a reputation (arguably well-earned) of being a wild party girl in the past. And according to R Online, Barack and Michelle Obama hoped that dating Rory would “bring a little stability” into her life. High praise indeed!

What about Rory’s parents? Malia enjoyed brunching with them at a California resort in July of 2019 and then spent Christmas of that year with his family in London. It looks like things are getting serious for them, and engagement may be right on the horizon for the happy couple!

Engagement on the horizon?

The obvious question right now is when the young couple will get engaged. How likely that is to happen, though, depends on who you ask.

According to the tabloid Globe, Rory already proposed and Malia said yes. But they claim Barack Obama told her it was “too soon” and that he refused to pay for an “elegant English wedding” or even walk her down the aisle!

Later, Globe reported that Malia called off the engagement. But no other journalists could corroborate any of this, and it seems like all of the engagement gossip may be completely fake.

Moving in together

The two may not be getting married anytime soon, but they do have another major activity on the horizon: moving in together!

Assuming neither of them fell behind in their studies, Rory graduated Harvard in 2020 and Malia will graduate in 2021. If the two stay together, they are going to need to find a place to live together. And there is endless speculation about where that might be!

Multiple British publications (including Hello! and The Evening Standard) think that the lovebirds will settle somewhere in England instead of somewhere in The United States. But all of this is only speculation at this point.

Wherever they end up, one thing is clear: the two will continue to make each other very happy!

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